Onward and Upward
I find myself overcommitted more often than not.
In a constant effort to satisfy every expectation imposed on me, I become buried with an unrealistic schedule. Simply taking a commitment off my to-do list is not an option; to do so would be accepting defeat and failing to perform. The result is a whirlwind of work and sacrifices in my personal life.
Disappointment is one of my greatest fears. Image and reputation are fixed at the forefront of my thoughts, and they impact every decision I make. Failing to meet expectations is undoubtedly the largest possible blow to my reputation.
I have yet to learn how to accept defeat when I become overcommitted. It takes a lot of mental toughness to see the value in saying “no.” I have always associated the word with weakness, but I’ve realized it can indicate quite the opposite.
